I Pledge Allegiance To The Flag??

Ha! You thought I was all about bad boys and starfish and drankin-smokin-straight- West-Coastin, didn't you??

Well today I want to talk about something a little more serious:

The Pledge of Allegiance

Ever since I was little it bothered me that I had to recite the pledge. No one ever sat down and explained what it meant, or why we say it - even in private school. It was just expected that day in, day out everyone lined up like zombies and recited these sacred words. What bullshit.

By the time I realized that legally, my school could not make me say it, it was so ingrained in me that I usually still said it anyway. That sparked a whole 'nother thought in my mind which as an adult would come to be this: Why would I want to say something that I didn't mean and more importantly - if it was something I should mean, then why did the government have to jam it down my throat since I was five?


I have told my son since he started school that he did not have to say the pledge. In fact, I preferred if he didn't. Now in third grade, it came up in the car this morning. He said that he usually doesn't say it, except when the teacher looks at him because he doesn't want to get "busted".

Of course I flipped. I went into the whole "You stand up for what you believe in" and "If your teacher don't like it she can kiss my ass" lecture. I thought I had made it clear before, but understandably, when you're told to do something every day and everyone else does it too, it's easy to conform.






Say What You Mean, Mean What You Say

In order to truly be for or against reciting this pledge we must first take a look at what it means.

"I pledge allegiance to the flag
of the United States of America
and to the republic for which it stands.
One nation, under God, indivisible,
with liberty and justice for all."

Merriam-Webster has several definitions for the word "allegiance". One of which is "the fidelity owed by a subject or citizen to a sovereign or government" and another of which is "devotion or loyalty to a person, group, or cause".

So now that we understand the meaning of what we're pledging, let's take a look at what we're pledging it to - "the REPUBLIC" for which the flag stands. The most appropriate and complete definition listed for "republic" is "a government in which supreme power resides in a body of citizens entitled to vote and is exercised by elected officers and representatives responsible to them and governing according to law".

The government. That's what it all boils down to. Why would a kindergartner (or a high school student for that matter) need to pledge their allegiance to the government?

Now the rest of it - that's beautiful, but it's contradictory, naive, and just plain not true:

"One nation under God" we are not, because we are supposed to have religious freedom. Although I personally have a strong faith in God, separation of church and state is what this country was supposedly founded on.

"Indivisible" we clearly are not, evident by the Civil War within this country from 1861-1865. The pledge was written in 1892, a time when our country was probably more so divided than ever. Not to mention, today our government wants to keep us divided and pitted against each other. It takes the focus off of what's really going down.

And I think we know that "liberty and justice for all" is a bold faced lie. It would take me 100 more blog posts to discuss the fallacies of that statement - from racism, sexism, our corrupt justice and welfare systems and the countless other atrocities our government has committed against it's own people.


COMMON SENSE tells me that our esteemed leaders have been lying to me and programming me to believe those lies since I was a child and it all started with the Pledge of Allegiance. THAT is why I had the discussion I did with my son. It's NOT OK to program people. We're NOT supposed to be robots.


It made me realize that maybe I need to be more educated about politics and what goes on in our government - what they want you to know and what they don't. How am I supposed to show him he should be different if I can't articulate to him why he should be different?

Fuck that pledge though.


* I encourage anyone with an opinion about the subject to leave their thoughts and comments. This type of post is definitely new and different for me, so also let me know how you liked it (or didn't). Thanks!!

Depths of a Thug by Warchild - 3rd Entry

Pussy Crooks


Who are these pussy crooks?
They are the boyfriends and baby daddies that shack up with a woman and play house - get the woman knocked up - or just end up being with her for years - beat the pussy up - knock the lining out that pussy - wear her down - cock block on another man - but will NEVER marry her ass.

Watch out ladies, he's wanted dead or alive by women across America. He's extorting the pussy....he's the Pussy Crook.

C'mon, walk with me...

Does he buy you a ring and say this is a promise or commitment ring? Some crooks might go so far as to say it's an actual engagement ring, call you his wifey, he's #1. Some will buy you whatever they can afford, but never walk your ass down that aisle or give you that last name. Beware: these Pussy Crooks steal the pussy and hold it hostage!



The drama of a crook being with a woman playing house but never marrying her is far more common than most women probably know. While marriage is not a top priority for some women, most women dream of getting married and it's their man saying HELL NAW, not now.

Most of these crooks add insult to injury by eventually leaving that long term relationship with you or the mother of their child and marrying some other woman they barely know. Stepping off and making the next broad an honest woman is a hurtful, but not the real issue.


The real issue is - Why don't they marry the woman that's been down for years or the woman who brought life to their seeds? Why are these crooks content with just playing house??

The effect it has on women is immeasurable. Most women equate marriage to self esteem. Having a husband for her gives her a sense of worthiness and value. Just the word "husband" and being able to say they have one gives a woman a sense of superiority. And the actual wedding - ladies know - they want to invite everyone they know, even if they don't like them, just so they can watch them get married and show that - yes, they are worthy. Even if they went through hell and back to make it happen. Women believe that if a man doesn't marry her there is something wrong with her.

Part of that reason is because a man that doesn't wanna marry you, but doesn't wanna lose you will focus on all your negative traits, past mistakes and plain ole dumb shit sometimes to support his position of stalling so that the woman begins to believe that she is not worthy of marriage. All the while these crooks enjoy her good qualities and comforts of her playing wifey. He has all the benefits and none of the commitment.

The painful reality for most is that once a man sees a flaw in you he may never marry you. He will always think he can do better. That the grass is greener on the other side.

A crook doesn't even have to have another woman in mind to assume the grass is greener somewhere else. When women meet a man that they develop feelings for and think he may be the one they GIVE UP THE PUSSY, move in with him and start playing wifey without the commitment. Cooking, cleaning, washing his draw's, dealing with his mama, putting up with his friends (ole crazy mahfuckas) - all in hopes of getting that ring and even more importantly - being his REAL wife.

No matter what some women do, there are certain men, crooks to the heart, who are just NEVER going to commit and will always have an excuse. With this crook, it doesn't matter how well you perform fellatio, that you put up with his bitchy mother, deal with all his other kids, get freaky in bed, run the house, help him with is business, turn a blind eye to his cheating, drug abuse or physical abuse - he will NEVER MARRY YOU - he's a CROOK, You could have wings on your back and an endorsement from Jehovah Himself and he will think he can do better, or that there is no benefit to that level of commitment.



Don't get it twisted ladies, the ones that don't wanna get married will tell you from the get go. Some will repeat it daily. The ones that don't tell ya'll give you clues like cheating, never setting a wedding date, or just never discussing it at all.

There are men out there that are looking for what you are too. When you find you the one that is it for you it is BLISS, but don't be afraid to say this ain't it. There is no crime in letting go of something that isn't working for you.

Finally, don't blame your man 100% for your situation - ultimately, you stayed because YOU wanted to. A Pussy Crook can only get away with what you allow. So at the end of the day, he may be stringing you along but you gave him the rope.

So beware of those Pussy Crooks!! And stay lovin those Thugs!!

This was inspired by the Pussy Crooks I know personally and this is dedicated to my 9 year old daughter Aaliyah who is too young to understand, but when she becomes a woman will avoid that type of man...Walk with me next week.

Warchild A.K.A urmahs

Blow Jobs

Yes, I said blow jobs.

I was very torn on whether or not to share my thoughts on the subject. I sincerely hope that the recipient of my blow jobs is not offended or upset that I'm about to share the game that I'm sharing.

I'm gonna do my best to keep it real (like always) so if this gets graphic forgive me. What if my mom reads this? I can't believe I'm about to talk about this...


Quantity AND Quality

First of all, let me start by saying DO IT!! Helloooo bitches! The Loaded Gun Theory?? Have you not been paying attention. Do it and do it often and well. This serves so many purposes.

Let me tell you ladies: If you're too stuck up to get down and dirty to please your man, there is a line of hoodrats that wraps around the block and they are all licking their heavily glossed lips at the chance to suck your man's dick.

I can already hear all the high fives and hallelujahs coming from the men right about now! But c'mon now it's true. If you don't want him going else where, you better keep the sperm build up to a minimum.

I suggest a minimum of 5 times a week. If this sounds like too much for you, then you're obviously not as devoted as you think you might be. Keep in mind, you can have 2-3 in one day. Three good ones will probably put his ass outta commission for the next few days anyway. But, if he can take it everyday...give it everyday. Don't stop until he says he can take no more.

There's so many opportunities. I promise if you just try a few you will fuck up his whole mental. Try waking him up this way. Try asking him to pull over somewhere or even just on the freeway. Or, if you know he's getting ready to go out somewhere, make sure you allow time while he's getting ready for him to "unload". You will sleep a helluva lot easier knowing that he's drunk in the club with all those hoochies in his face, but he's completely at ease because they can't offer him nothing he didn't already get before he left the house.



Okay, okay. I know this is NOT every body's favorite pastime. Some women are down right disgusted by it, and understandably so. It can be scary. Male genitalia is ugly and intimidating at times, but you have to find a way to be one with the penis.

First of all, if it's sweaty, or not hygienically Kosher...just say so. He's a GUY! It's not a sensitive issue the way it could be with a girl. I'm sure he doesn't give a fuck what it takes, as long as he still gets his BJ. He was probably just playing basketball or something earlier anyway. Make a joke about it or go get a damn wash cloth and clean him off yourself. He will learn that you ain't puttin no dirty dick in your mouth.

Another problem for some girls is gag reflex. Nobody ever said you have to be a sword swallower. Use more hands than mouth, one on top of the other, like you would a baseball bat. It is just as effective. Also, you will be able to give different sensations and pressures simultaneously, a plus for him. If you're not confident in your skills, that's all the more reason to practice.

What He Doesn't Know

...and maybe you don't either, is that it is NOT demeaning. He is not the damn king of the world because you have his dick in your mouth. In fact, it's completely the opposite. You have ALL the control. What is he gonna do? It puts him in an extremely vulnerable position. You can tell him whatever you want and ask whatever you want. No man in his right mind is going to disagree with sheeit when you have his boys in your hand.

As you get better and better you will realize this power even more because he will ask, maybe even beg for you to do that one thing. Knowing you can do something to him in a way no one else can is extremely empowering.

If you're still not convinced, or if you still have questions I would be happy to address the ladies on a one on one basis. I would love to write a step by step fellatio guide, but unfortunately skanks can read too and I'm not giving up anymore of my game or technique than I already have.

Depths of a Thug by Warchild - 2nd Entry

Who wants TRUE Thug Lovin'??

C'mon, walk with me...

Thug Lovin': Who really knows what it is and how to do it?
Here's 10 tips on how to heat her ass up in the privacy of your own bedroom.

1. Know Your Role
Women, let your man lead. To experience Thug Lovin', he must first invoke sensuality to her body from top down, Focusing on frequency rather than friction.

2. Get Beyond That Mental Block
Conflict is like clutter. Clear it up before engaging to make room for intimacy.

3. Activate Intimacy
It's important to create ambiance. Try turning up the room temp to warm the body. (So that pussy will throb and those balls will hang.) Fill the air with the scent of passion, not too strong, and keep the color red around to ignite sensuality. Use candle light to create an intimate mood.

4. Engage Without An Agenda
Take ya time! Transform a physical interaction into a sexual journey. Approach love making as a playful exploration rather than a means to an end. You have to prep that meat before you cook and eat it.

5. It's All In The Kiss...4 Real
Consider the kiss the interview. Use the rhythm, pace and intensity of your kiss to express the kind of lover you are and the qualities you want when you make Thug Lovin'.

6.Breathe Each Other's Breath
Synchronized breathing is one step to arousal. (That "Oneness") Make the heat rise even higher by inhaling and exhaling just inches apart. Eye contact is encouraged to increase intensity. No closed eyes!

7. Express Yourself
When a woman remains silent in bed it's as if she's hiding in a dark room and the dude is fumbling around trying to find her. She can help guide him by using her voice.

8. Learn The Power of Touch
This is key. Use your finger tips and hands (both at the same time) to stimulate your partner's body. The more delicate and subtle the touch, the more powerful the effect.

9.Thugs: Hold That Fire...No Need For a 2nd Wind
To increase endurance while taking her down, try maintaining a slow, regulated breathing pattern. Bring direct contact to a stand still for a few seconds when necessary in order to return to a slow build. The goal is to maintain the same level of excitement from beginning to end. Use multiple positions. Put her every which way. Don't leave a place on her unexplored.

10. Women: Lay Off The Pocket Rocket
Take a break from your "lil friend" if you want to find the flow with your Thug. The truth is, he will never be able to match its frequency. Becoming too familiar with a toy or dildo can result in sexual frustration. It can also lead to pussy and clitoris numbness.


Now consider yourself a lil better off than you were before after reading these steps. TRY them. Utilize them. They will work for you. Ladies, if you have a square, J-cat, L7 or fuckboy and he seems to make you happy in every other area but intimacy - Tell him to look over these tips. It will help.

That Thug Lovin' is healing and exhilarating - just being able to feel that type of energy. No wonder they LUV that THUG PASSION!!

-Warchild AKA urmahs-

Bitch Made Men

Let me start by saying - There's nothing worse than a Bitch Made Man.
I'm sorry, it's harsh, but it's true. Women don't like it and men don't respect it.

Most of these men really never admit to themselves that they are in the "bitch made" category, it's a hard pill to swallow. Most of the soft ass dudes I've come across spend so much time trying to hide their bitchiness that they don't fool anyone but themselves.

I'd like to explore what I think constitutes this unfortunate disorder and whether or not there is a cure.

First let me say that you don't have to be made of steel to be an upstanding guy. You just have to know what you stand for. Be firm but fair, never let anyone run over you, but also don't take advantage of others. Too much of a hard ass is just a douche bag. No one wants to be with a completely cold emotionless bastard.

You don't have to be the type to throw down, but personally, I need to know you can. Also, don't be afraid to check your woman. I don't mean chin-check her ass, but it's Ok to wear the pants and put your foot down at times. I know that I don't like to be with a dude I can walk all over. It's boring. Plus, if you can't check ME - who CAN you check?? I'm not about to have you hiding behind me if some real shit goes down.

Next thing is emotions. It's Ok to be emotional, just don't be feminine. Men don't cry. Sorry, that might be old skool, sexist, whatever you wanna call it, but in my book, unless someone dies - suck it up man. You need to be my shoulder to cry on. That's why you have testicles and I don't, remember?

Now keep in mind that doesn't mean you can't show emotion. You can get upset, or mad, or hurt just like us. Just choose to verbalize it with passion instead of whining. A good woman will recognize when she needs to be strong for you - and she'll do it without ever saying a word. A good woman will be that back bone and that glue that keeps a relationship together. She will always have a back up plan and an "I told you so" for when you fuck up, but she'll still let you be the man and fuck up in the first place.

There's some other key points for me as well:

If you're a hypocrite, that's automatic Bitch Made. A real man will admit to his mistakes and show his steps to change them rather than just say one thing and do another. Be a man of your word because at the end of the day, if you don't have that, you don't have anything anyway.

If you snitch in any way - Bitch Made. Don't throw you're homies under the bus to the cops, their girl, nothin'. Even if they stab you in the back, don't break that code. If you do, you're only disrespecting yourself.

If you wear skinny jeans - Bitch Made!! Sorry, I had to throw this one in. If you borrow pants from your little sister you do not have enough testosterone in your system. Unless we are about to get busy, I don't ever wanna see your knee caps or ball sack.


If you talk a lot but never say nothin' - Bitch Made. Don't speak on an issue unless you are educated enough about the subject to take a stance. Make sure when you open your mouth there is something of substance coming out. You never know who might be listening.

Now that that's all out on the table, I can't stress enough a few things that a REAL MAN does. Don't ever get it twisted for Bitch Made:

Love your woman. Keep her a priority in your crazy life. Make sure she gets the affection and the attention she needs to be fullfilled. A little bit goes a long way. You will be amazed at what a well taken care of woman will do for you. Hold her when she needs it. Kiss her everyday. Tell her you love her. Be her best friend, not just the man that messes up her house and gets her pussy. Listen to her when she talks and validate her feelings.
I promise you it will pay off.

Choose your battles. Don't knock out the dude at the next gas pump because you don't like how he looked at you. Don't flip a nutty on your chick because she said or did something you don't like. Don't act a fool in court because you know your charges are bullshit.

Just because you have the power to fuck shit up doesn't mean you should. Assess the situation and decide how important it is to prove your point. Sometimes you have to be man enough to let it go.

Don't be afraid to reach out. Even the toughest muthafucka in the world needs a hand from time to time. Stay humble. It's Ok to receive help from people close to you. Don't act like the world is against you. If you think you're too good or "too much of a man" to accept an act of love or good will from the right person, you may end up alienating the ones who really matter. Be appreciative and grateful that God put friends or family or a woman in your life to have your back.

As for a cure, I would say if there is one, the first step would be honesty. Take an honest look at yourself and strive to stay true to that. You don't have to be the hardest, richest, hottest or the best at anything in particular. Stop trying to impress everyone and just be you. People always respect it and if they don't then it's because they themselves lack substance. You know the saying...Real Recogize Real. It's true.

So if you feel you might need to man the fuck up - do yourself and the world a favor. Go watch some porn. Go drink a beer. Go to the gun range or a boxing match or something. Put on your "big boy britches" and own your own destiny. Don't be a Bitch Made Muthafucka.

A real man is a diamond in the rough, a true gem. A man with values, beliefs and back bone is priceless and rare. If you are one: don't let this world change you. If you find one: cherish him and hold on to him with both hands.

*special thanks for inspiring this topic goes to @wmburden who is definitely not Bitch Made.

Depths of a Thug by Warchild

First and foremost, I am a real Thug. What you are getting from this blog is true and sometimes personal for me. I'm very excited to share this lifestyle with you all and go into depth about the ups and many downs a person who lives this lifestyle goes through, and also, the people who go through it with him. This is by no means bragging or boasting about the lifestyle. This is only a close look at how "Thuggin" affects ones life. C'mon, walk with me..............


Subject: Should she stay or should she go?

He's never gonna change ! He's a Thug, he'll keep going back to jail. Should she leave him or support him while in jail??

What good is a woman who when a man is out is loyal, but when he's behind those walls leaves him, saying "I can't handle this."?? The truth is, that woman was NEVER loyal. If a woman is in a committed relationship while a man is on the outside she should stay committed to him while he's incarcerrated.

There are exceptions, one being the length of time he's doing. Say he gets a life sentence or 10 - 15 years. That's a long time to be committed to a person that's not gonna be there in the physical. The man incarcerated should also think about that woman. Is it fair to her to have to wait that long for you? For your mistake, something you did?

On the other hand, you said you wanted a bad boy. You said you love the Thugs. So should she love everything that goes with it? Even when friends and family tell her different? - "Girl he aint shit! He stay in and out of jail! What can he do for you in there?" or "Girl, I got somebody for you to meet."

Those are just a few of the things she might hear from her closest friends and relatives. Some succumb to the pressure, mostly younger women who look at 2 yrs (half time = 1 yr prison) or 16 months (half time = 8 mos prison) as a lifetime. Real muthafuckas do that type of time standing on their heads. That's called "wino time" or "short tymer". That's when you don't even mention your sentence, especially around people who are doing years, ya heard?

You find that if you have a little more history with the woman on the outside then the odds of her staying down during a period of incarceration is better. If you only been with the bitch 6 mos to a year, your odds might not be so good. That broad will send you that Dear John letter - have your ass lookin' like Boo Boo lookin' for Yogi.

There ARE exceptions. You might run into one that you have not known that long on the street, ya'll have only spent a little time together, but she wants to stay down with you. Those are Keepers. They let patience have its perfect work and they stand the test of time.

So to all my Thuggs, Bad Boys and Gangstas: ASK THEM WHEN YOU FIRST MEET THEM! They're attracted by your lifestyle, that swag. Can she accept the downfalls that come with it??

If so, when those unfortunate times come to pass you'll have a true Rider ridin' with you. If she says no, make her feet touch the gravel and tell her get on! No need wasting your time. She's a liability.

To the Ladies: Don't fuck with a flame if you don't like heat, ya heard? Meaning if you don't wanna be down during the Hard Times, don't be down at all. Find you a square, an L7, a fuckboy or something. You don't need a Thug.

So should she leave him or stay while he's in jail??

The answer is STAY 100%! She knew what it was when she got it!!

-WARCHILD AKA urmahs-

Thank you for reading. Please comment and leave your opinion.

THAT Bitch

Women always complain that the world is full of assholes and there are no good men left, but the truth is – those assholes may have at one time been good dudes….Until SHE got a hold of him.

Yep, you know her, or at least you are familiar with her work. She’s that bitch that ruined that rare gem of a good man for the rest of us. She made him feel so stupid or so small (no double meaning intended) that he decided he will never again put himself in a position to feel that heartache or embarrassment and then poof! He morphed into an asshole.

We all know the ways to spot an asshole – Mr. I’m-going-to-use-you-for-sex-and-not-call-you-any-other-time, Mr. I-have-more-kids-than-toes-and-don’t-take-care-of-none-of-them (kids OR toes yo), Mr. I’m-scared-of-commitment-because-I-might-wanna-fuck-someone-else, Mr. Say-I-love-you-when-I’m-drunk-and-act-like-it-never-happened – I could go on forever. So instead of taking the obvious route and male bashing (which I am usually dead set against) we are going to go straight to the root of the problem and talk about ways to spot “that bitch”.

Women have been bringing men down since the beginning of time. Eve tricked her husband into eating from the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil and there it was, the tone was set for a woman’s dark side to be sneaky and deceptive in nature. Men always say they want a woman just like their mama, but let’s re-think this – your mama might be “that bitch” in which case, do the opposite. Take a look at the woman you’re with and see if she’s too much of the following:

That bitch comes in many shapes and sizes but you can usually tell her by her long relationship rap sheet. She has more exes than underwear and changes them just as frequently. She is usually the type of woman who is never “alone” for more than a month or two. She might also tend to build her own personality based on her current man’s interests and beliefs. She may have an extensive history of “homie hoppin” or over lapping sexual relationships that will cause you turmoil. She is usually also the type of girl who will start a fight with a big ass dude and then say “My boyfriend is gonna kick your ass!!!”.

In most cases that bitch will be so gorgeous that your penis will not care about the substance of her character. Your penis will tell you that just because she didn’t answer her phone all night on Friday doesn’t mean that was her spotted leaving the club with ole boy. Your penis will tell you that she loves only you and is as virtuous as Mother Theresa….until she uses you up and disposes of you when a more lucrative opportunity arises.

That bitch is also usually a bit high maintenance, her selfish nature will probably be obvious to everyone but you. She might even change into something resembling a respectable woman, but I promise you, after a few years of marriage, her simple bitch tendencies will rear their ugly head again. So, before you even get that far, run your lady down the following check list. If you check more than one of these things off the list – Get rid of her, yesterday.





1) This broad has at any point, no matter how far in the past, been romantically linked to any of your friends or family members.

2) She currently has a significant other. Even if he's in jail...she's bad news.

3) She's under 25 and has more than 1 baby daddy or over 25 and has more than 2.

4) She is currently employed as a stripper.

5) She has had a previous boyfriend put in jail - for ANY reason.

6) She cannot count her ex boyfriends on one hand (2 if she's over 35).

7) She brings you around her child(ren) right away, and they dont even seem weirded out by their mom with some guy.

8) She has more than 4 girlfriends that she claims to be close with.

9) She automatically expects you to spend money on her.

10) Your mom hates her and has a valid reason for it.

If any part of this was not clear please refer to December's "Chickenheadz" post.

•Special thanks to Miss Nailah Summers AKA @gnarleybynature for suggesting this topic. #skreefasquad. Yes, I just hashtagged in my blog.